Essays & Research Notes

The Gospel of Silence

Growing up in a home where God was weaponized, I learned early that a gay child isn’t a child at all — he’s a theological emergency...

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When God Speaks With Your Abuser’s Voice

Spiritual gaslighting doesn’t start with theology — it starts with power. It teaches you to distrust your intuition, reinterpret your pain, and call your survival instincts “sin”...

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Sloppy Healing: The Truth About What Complex Trauma Actually Looks Like

Healing from complex trauma isn’t a polished transformation — it’s messy, uneven, and often misunderstood. Sloppy healing is what it looks like when a nervous system that’s lived in captivity finally starts to believe it might get free...

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